Dear Faye, I'd like to thank you for taking the time to read this blog post & for also sharing your own personal experience with this energy. Although plutonic synastry can be brutally painful at times, I do believe that ultimately this metamorphosis transforms us in the long run. I believe that energy healing practices such as reiki and cord cutting assist with removing stagnant energy blocks/soul ties trapped within us so perhaps this is something you could look into. There is also quote which helped me make sense of this pain and I hope that these words guide you through this journey. "Every time I think I'm dying I'm just being reborn".